Love Decoded

Free Self-Assessments

See Where You Actually Are.
Honestly.

No sign-up. No judgement. Take a quick, private look at your relationship patterns, conflict style, or spiritual maturity — and get one concrete step forward.

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The Love Decoder Challenge

Discover your relationship DNA

Swipe through 20 relationship scenarios and see your instincts mapped across six categories — communication, conflict, trust, support, goals, and maturity. Instant persona and shareable result card.

20 scenarios · ~3 min · Swipe-based

Covenant Conflict Test

Spot your conflict style

Maps how you handle confrontation across five dimensions: regulation, escalation, defensiveness, avoidance, and repair. Choose your depth — 7, 14, or 24 questions.

7–24 questions · 2–10 min · Private

Spiritual Maturity Assessment

Measure where you really are

Five dimensions of spiritual formation — not where you think you should be, but where you actually are. Personalised growth step at the end.

7–24 questions · 2–10 min · Formation-focused

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These tools show you where you are. Love Decoded shows you how to get where you need to be — with separate tracks for men and women, built on biblical depth and psychological insight.